Monday, March 8, 2010

Official update (not the kind I'd put on Facebook, and this one may not be for the guys)

So you get the real deal if you are a blog follower. There's no way that I'm going to describe "stripping the membranes" in a status update! My next appointment was supposed to be Wednesday. Couldn't wait. A poor colleague of mine made the mistake of saying hello to me this morning and expressing surprise and sympathy that I was still at school. Tears, big time. Thank goodness I love the people I work with--otherwise that would have been mortifying! So, being the hormonal mess I am, I called the doctor's office and asked if they had cancellations today. They did, thank goodness! So, off the OB I went at 1:30.

Good news: I have made progress. Completely effaced, 1 more centimeter dilated.

Bad news: Only 3 cm. dilated.

Good news: She offered to strip my membranes. Sounds nasty, eh? It's basically an internal exam with a little extra...removing the membranes that attach the bag of waters to the wall of the uterus at the bottom. I really don't want to be too graphic. Google it for more information! It's supposed to stimulate prostaglandin which can help get contractions rolling. I'm really crampy right now, so that might be a good sign.

Bad news: There are no signs that spontaneous labor is near...so if this doesn't work I just have to depend on nature for a bit longer.

Good news: I go back Wednesday to see how the baby is tolerating this longer stay in the womb. Depending on the results, we'll make a plan. I can be induced at any time. This is really up to me at this point, which is something I never realized. I thought I had to wait until 42 weeks (next Weds) to even have that as a consideration!

Bad news: I don't want to be induced...at all. I was the first time around and I would like to experience things a bit more naturally this time. So, I'm going to hold out on the induction until at least Friday, I think. Give numero dos a few more days to decide to make this happen on his own. Induction can be stressful to a baby, and I know the contractions are INTENSE with induction (although I'm sure they're intense either way). Oh, and I'm trying to do this without an epidural this time.

Good news: There is an end in sight...so now I'm trying to embrace these last fews days as a family of three and my ever-expanding waistline. Oh, and I'm not going to work past Wednesday regardless of our plan of action. Having an end date feels good.

OK, time for my nightly LONG, HOT shower. That's all for now!

5 comments:

maria said...

"Mom, you can take as many hot showers as you wish, walk a thousand miles, and maybe even get the Dr. to "coax" me along,BUT I LOVE giving you kicks,and hearing your voice,and rocking to & fro, as you make your way around the house, but it's your heartbeat that soothes me."
"Okay Mom,I know I've been a tad pokey,and I know you're ready for me, so with that said......I'm on my way!" "I love you mom."
Your Baby Boy

aunt sarah said...

erin, you have a little sarah on your hands. they had to pull me out with tongs becuz i loved my own mama's heartbeat so much. baby dos is on his way! love you.

maria said...

"Mom,I can't wait to meet you,dad,big brother Will, and of course furry Peso!"
"See ya tonight or tomorrow!"
"Oh, and I can't wait to meet Maria & Chris.....I heard they're really cute, and quite entertaining!"
"Love ya mom!"
Your Baby Boy

maria said...

Dear Justin,Erin & Will,
Today, March 11, 2010, a beautiful boy was born....a birthday to celebrate for many years to come. We waited with baited breath, twirled with delight, and cried a few tears, knowing that our world became brighter. Today, I stand taller, smile with happiness, and love a little deeper.....this new addition cements our family. Another chapter begins.....and like all beginnings, it's a blessing to know, that as life unfolds before our eyes, we can stand back, and welcome the joy that will be yours.....and ours.
Thank you for this lovely, and amazing gift.....a future full of endless possibilities. I love you.
maria

maria said...

Dear Patrick......
Happy Happy 1st week birthday! And what a week it's been! Two adoring Grandparents to welcome you home, a baby brother to watch over you, a set of parent's who can't take their eyes off you, and of course, a kitty,Peso, who's not sure what to make of your arrival! You've been to the beach,strolled in a carriage, rocked in a swing, and nestled in a bassinette that was shared by many other babies before you.And soon, it'll be my turn to unfold your blankets, and look at your tiny form.......smelling your neck,soothing your tentative cries, and tucking you into the fold of my arm, where I'll whisper many I love you's into your listening ears. Though only a week old today,you are a gift to be treasured for many days,months,and years to come. I can't wait to watch your life unfold before our eyes.
I'll be there soon Paddy!
xoxoxoxoxo
maria